My Life and MY Work, in Brief
I came from a very unusual background: My mother died of breast cancer when I was 10 months and my dad rushed into a second marriage that proved very unhappy – for him, for me, and for my younger brother, Bob, who was born into that marriage. Possibly my most famous moment in life came in 1944, at age 2, when the Queen’s aunt, Princess Alice, visited Bellevue nursery school in Toronto, as part of her contribution to the war, and selected me for a photo op that appeared on the front page of the Toronto Telegram. I wasn’t a happy customer and was already wishing that I was not one of the chosen people.
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My school beginnings were on the rough side. Except for a psychologist armed with an IQ test, I might still be in kindergarten. However, things picked up from there, and I was only 12 when I entered Harbord Collegiate, my age being a mixed blessing as I was immature.
My family had two religions, Judaism to which was paid lip-service and was primarily a cultural activity (e.g., attending Camp Yungvelt) and Communism, which was the real thing. When other Jewish boys were preparing for their Bar Mitzvah and learning text such as Barukh ata Adonai Eloheinu, melekh ha`olam, the book I was reading started with “A spectre is haunting Europe — the spectre of communism” and ended with “The proletarians have nothing to lose but their chains. They have a world to win. Workers of the world, unite!”
In my family, Marxism was serious stuff. In the 1920s, my aunt, uncle, and cousin returned from Toronto to Moscow to be part of the revolution. (Your eyes are not playing tricks on you.) When Joe Stalin died, my grandfather was slumped over his radio, listening to the broadcast, disconsolate, with tears streaming down his face. I was 11 years old and trying to make sense of the conflicting signals from the world around me and my family.
As a young lad, these were radically different approaches, but as I matured it became apparent that they were much the same: one prophesizing a heaven after earth for adherents and the other prophesizing heaven on earth, and even more so believing that Marx, the prophet, who ironically came from a lengthy rabbinical tradition, had proven scientifically how heaven on earth would come about. Both were faith-based systems, and both were rife with dogmatism, especially if taken seriously.
My father was a heroic figure in my life, especially my formative years; he was a dress cutter and labour organizer, was critical of Stalinism, but maintained the faith as a Trotskyist. Nevertheless, there was a pragmatic side to him and in his later life he was primarily a social democrat. My dad worked long hours, attended union meetings following work, but always made time for my brother and myself. I relished our chess games. Saturday afternoon at 1 pm, it was opera time and time for me to head out, but some of it stuck, as I now enjoy the opera.
I credit Peter Russell, a brilliant young lecturer at the University of Toronto in my first course in political science with helping me to understand that there were middle ways in politics and not everything need be reduced to extremes. (Peter would later become a leading scholar of the Canadian constitution and the Canadian parliamentary system.) I was searching, needing ideals, and was a bit unhinged. The study of psychology, Freud and Fromm at first, became an escape, and I completed an MA in Social Psychology at the U of Toronto, after turning down an offer from the U of Toronto Law School. I did my PhD at OISE, U of Toronto, with a thesis on the student movement of the 60s, which was published as a book in 1972, the year that my daughter, Zoey, was born.
However, I was still searching. I had a yen, a human yearning to see a better way. In 1980, I had a sabbatical from my faculty position at OISE, and with my family (my wife Jesse at the time, Zoey, and my 2-year old son David) took the unusual step of living on a kibbutz, a utopian communal system in Israel that I had studied and wanted to learn more about. It also gave me a chance to introduce my children to a secular form of Judaism, apart from religious worship. This was a life-changing experience for me as I was introduced to a form of co-operative that seemed to work and offered its members a good standard of living and a good quality of life. It also gave me and my family an opportunity to experience Judaism as a living culture without all the religious baggage.